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Friday, August 9, 2013
WHAT DOES REAL LOVE LOOK LIKE?
Real love is something so deep, so energizing, that you will not know
it unless you experience it. Love is an expression of energy, not
something that is transacted. Tell me one thing: can you love people
when you meet them for the first time?
There are so many aspects to love - love for my family - love for very good friends (straight and gay) - love for the one I'm in a relationship with! All these are good and beautiful, and they all take time to develop and grow and deepen. Each in its own way is something very beautiful. "Love at first sight" - NO! Sexual desire at first sight - YES!!!!
After a number of enlightening emails and phone conversations, meeting my BF in person for the first time was simply the icing on the cake. I already knew in my gut that he was THE ONE and after 4+ years of many ups,downs and permutations, he still is and will remain so for the rest of my life.
There are so many aspects to love - love for my family - love for very good friends (straight and gay) - love for the one I'm in a relationship with! All these are good and beautiful, and they all take time to develop and grow and deepen. Each in its own way is something very beautiful. "Love at first sight" - NO! Sexual desire at first sight - YES!!!!
ReplyDeleteyou made me wish that I'd title this entry 'WHAT DOES ABSOLUTE LOVE LOOK LIKE'
DeleteAfter a number of enlightening emails and phone conversations, meeting my BF in person for the first time was simply the icing on the cake. I already knew in my gut that he was THE ONE and after 4+ years of many ups,downs and permutations, he still is and will remain so for the rest of my life.
ReplyDeletesounds like my journey with Noel :-)
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