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Tuesday, August 6, 2013

JUST E-MAIL ME: ¿IS THIS RELATIONSHIP DONE?


WHAT ADVICE WOULD YOU GIVE ON THIS E-MAIL:

I met my partner when we were both 22 and closeted. He's never been with a woman, but I have because I felt I had to hide being gay. My partner got me to leave her and we moved in together. A year later, he moved out because I had to take in two of my nieces and nephews. He was great and very affectionate after they moved out. But then we stopped sleeping in the same bed unless we are fooling around. At the time I was OK with it.

Now, he won’t sit and watch TV, talk, or eat dinner with me. He just comes home and goes straight to his bed room to watch TV or play his X-Box till dinner is made. At the time I thought about coming out, but he said no. Eventually, I did and came out running! I also lost 20 pounds. Now he's pissed at me.

We want two different things: I want love, affection, passion, and romance. He just wants to stay in the closet. Is it safe to say this relationship is over? Am I wanting something that is never going to happen?
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  1. Queer HeavenAugust 6, 2013 at 12:15 PM

    Yes, I am afraid it sounds like your relationship is over. Not having sex with your partner is bad enough, but for you to be open and out and he is not, that is the major problem here.
    I know from experience that trying to have a long term relation ship with a closeted guy never works.

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    1. AnonymousAugust 6, 2013 at 2:08 PM

      I never had such an experience and for good reason, thanks for you comment

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  2. JuiceUnitAugust 6, 2013 at 12:39 PM

    bro....your "lover" is sleeping with the enemy....move on bro.. get your own life .

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    1. AnonymousAugust 6, 2013 at 2:09 PM

      the writing is on the wall in this case.

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  3. O!DaddieAugust 6, 2013 at 1:49 PM

    It couldn't have been much of a relationship to begin with, so kick the asshole out and start working on why you seem to enjoy being a doormat.

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    1. AnonymousAugust 6, 2013 at 2:10 PM

      now this is a kick in the pants :-)

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  4. Roger PoladopoulosAugust 6, 2013 at 3:53 PM

    If one person has accepted his sexuality and the partner hasn't, the relationship needs to evolve. If the closeted partner refuses, then it's time to move on. It's that simple. Stay naked, my friend!

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  5. XersexAugust 7, 2013 at 5:25 AM

    If he really can't evolve, the relation can't go on!

    Enjoy my last post:

    http://menforxersex.blogspot.it/2013/08/cody-cummings-bypar-maurice-pegasi.html

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