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Oscar Wilde
once said, “Life imitates art far more than art imitates life.” For Billy
Porter, who plays the charismatic and outspoken Pray Tell on the award-winning
show Pose, the latter seems to be more true. On the hit drama
from FX, Porter’s character was revealed early in the first season to be
HIV-positive. Over the course of Pose’s three-season run,
Pray Tell’s story arc morphed from being in denial of his diagnosis to grief
and anger to acceptance, and in the fourth episode of the third season, “Take
Me to Church,” he goes back to his childhood home to confront his demons.
Three days
after that episode, Porter has shown how much art has imitated his own
life. In an exclusive with The Hollywood Reporter, the
51–year-old actor revealed he is HIV-positive. Porter explained to Lacey Rose:
“I was the
generation that was supposed to know better, and it happened anyway. It was
2007, the worst year of my life. I was on the precipice of obscurity for about
a decade or so, but 2007 was the worst of it. By February, I had been diagnosed
with Type 2 diabetes. By March, I signed bankruptcy papers. And by June, I was
diagnosed HIV-positive. The shame of that time compounded with the shame that
had already [accumulated] in my life silenced me, and I have lived with that
shame in silence for 14 years. HIV-positive, where I come from, growing up in
the Pentecostal church with a very religious family, is God’s punishment.”
Porter also
divulged to Rose that nobody involved with Pose knew he was
HIV-positive.
“Then
came Pose. An opportunity to work through the shame [of HIV] and where I
have gotten to in this moment. And the brilliance of Pray Tell and this
opportunity was that I was able to say everything that I wanted to say through
a surrogate.”
The actor
recounted how his shame over his diagnosis was associated with his mother:
“My mother had
been through so much already, so much persecution by her religious community
because of my queerness, that I just didn’t want her to have to live through
their ‘I told you so’s.’ I didn’t want to put her through that. I was
embarrassed. I was ashamed. I was the statistic that everybody said I would
be.”
Porter then
detailed that he was originally waiting until his mother died to write his
memoir where he would reveal his status as HIV-positive. Porter assumed, after
moving her into the Actors Fund Nursing Home, she wouldn’t be alive for too
much longer, however, five years later, Porter explained, “She ain’t going
anywhere.” While he and his sister were planning on telling their mother that
he was HIV-positive face to face, Porter ended up revealing his truth to his
mother another way:
“Then I woke
up on the last day of [shooting] Pose; I was writing in my
gratitude journal and my mama popped into my head. I was like, “Let me just
call her.” Not two minutes into the conversation, she’s like, ‘What’s
wrong?’ I said, “Nothing.’ She’s like, ‘Son, please tell me what’s
wrong.’ So I ripped the Band-Aid off and I told her. She said, ‘You’ve been
carrying this around for 14 years? Don’t ever do this again. I’m your mother, I
love you no matter what. And I know I didn’t understand how to do that early
on, but it’s been decades now.’ And it’s all true. It’s my own shame.”
Billy Porter
doesn’t want you to forget. He’s working with GLAAD to remind everyone that
LGBTQ voters, organizers, and groups like GLAAD made the difference in what was
considered the most pivotal election of our time.
In a new
video, the Pose star himself narrates a review of the tireless
work that GLAAD committed to during the 2020 primary and general elections. The
two-and-a-half minute spot highlights “the LGBTQ community’s impact on the 2020
general election, as well as the impact we are posed to have in the Georgia
run-off,” GLAAD announced.
“After five
primary debates without a single question about LGBTQ health care protections,
workplace discrimination, violence against the community or support for the
Equality Act, GLAAD deployed thirty years of media expertise to amplify the
LGBTQ voice in the election conversation,” Porter explains.
He lists their media guide for journalists,
petitions to debate moderators, and self-hosted Presidential Forum in Iowa as
examples of the group “spotlighting LGBTQ issues on the national stage.”
“GLAAD led the
charge to turn out LGBTQ and ally voters,” says Porter, “resulting in the
biggest LGBTQ turnout ever.”
“Because of
GLAAD, the voices — and the votes — of LGBTQ people and their allies were heard
loud and clear at the ballot box, and GLAAD will continue to lead the fight for
equality and acceptance,” Porter concludes.
Yet, the
extent of progress for LGBTQ rights under incoming President Joe Biden’s
administration remains uncertain. It
all depends on if Democrats can take hold of the Senate by winning the
runoff elections for Georgia’s two seats on January 5.
If either
incumbent — Kelly Loeffler or David Perdue — were to defeat their challenger —
Rev. Raphael Warnock or Jon Ossoff, respectively — Republicans would retain
control of the Senate. That means current Majority Leader Mitch McConnell would
remain in charge of the chamber’s agenda.
If both
Loeffler and Perdue lose, there would be exactly 50 Republican and 50 Democrat
Senators in the next Congress. That would allow Vice President-elect Kamala
Harris to cast the deciding vote to end tiebreakers in the chamber, and giving
pro-LGBTQ legislation like the Equality Act a chance of passing.
As Porter
says, “the election is over, but GLAAD’s work goes on.”
That’s why
GLAAD also announced that it will undertake yet another text messaging campaign
this week, hoping to encourage millions of potential voters to make that
difference yet again. They are working with LGBTQ organization Georgia Equality
and VoteAmerica to reach as many voters as possible before polls close next
Tuesday.
“Join millions
of people supporting diversity and inclusion by voting in the Jan. 5th Senate
runoff,” the sample text messages shared with LGBTQ Nation read.
“Early voting is open now,” they remind readers, before encouraging them to
find their nearest polling location and other information on the runoffs
at GLAAD.org/georgia.
“The texts
will continue through December 30 when early voting ends in select locations,”
GLAAD said in a statement.
Earlier this
month, the anti-LGBTQ records of Sens. Loeffler and Perdue were published to
GLAAD’s Trump Accountability Project,
also in collaboration with Georgia Equality. They found that Loeffler donates
her salary to an anti-LGBTQ group and has close ties to the Family
Research Council, a hate group, while Perdue has earned praised from the
Council and the Family Policy Alliance, a lobbying front for another anti-LGBTQ
hate group, Focus on the Family.
Neither have
voiced support, or even acknowledged, the proposed Equality Act, GLAAD points
out. Both Ossoff and Rev. Warnock support it.
That’s part of
why GLAAD is working just as hard to get the vote out in the Peach state — and
so far, early voting numbers reflect
higher turnout than in November’s election.
“The general
election began with a lack of attention given to LGBTQ issues and pivoted to
the Trump Administration falsely positioning itself as LGBTQ-affirming in a
shameless effort to court LGBTQ voters and our allies,” GLAAD President and CEO
Sarah Kate Ellis told LGBTQ Nation.
A
post-election poll by GLAAD found that Trump only earned 14 percent of the
LGBTQ vote, which was the same as he had in 2016. By contrast, Joe Biden earned
81 percent of the community’s vote.
That
contradicted a previous analysis that determined that Trump had doubled his
LGBTQ support in this election, based on an exit poll using a much smaller
sample of LGBTQ respondents.
“Combatting
that false narrative and growing visibility for LGBTQ issues became
centerpieces of GLAAD’s largest election campaign ever,” Ellis said. “LGBTQ
voters turned out in historic numbers and it’s thanks to our community, along
with other diverse Americans, that pro-equality candidates crossed the finish
line.”
GLAAD found
that approximately 93 percent of LGBTQ identifying people voted, and 25 percent
did so for the first time.
“Now, we must
join together to secure another win for equality in the Senate run-off,” Ellis
said, because “the Equality Act, an end to the trans military ban, and
rollbacks of other recent anti-LGBTQ policies can become realities” after
“years of advocacy.”
See GLAAD’s
video as narrated by Billy Porter here first.
Porter, who
hosted the New Orleans festivities for the first time last year, will be joined
by multiplatinum-selling artist Ciara, who will once again be hosting the Los
Angeles festivities on the same broadcast.
Country artist
Jessie James Decker will also be returning as Powerball correspondent for the
second year in a row, giving updates throughout the evening as he checks in
with five randomly selected finalists across America before revealing the
Powerball First Millionaire of the Year, just after midnight on January 1,
2021.
Of course, we
can’t forget to mention that the fashion icon is also has a Grammy and a Tony
Award for his work in Broadway's Kinky Boots, where he played
a drag queen named Lola who forms an unlikely partnership with a man that
inherited a shoe factory. Together, they produce a line of high-heeled boots
and ultimately save the business from going under.
This year’s
New Year’s Eve broadcast will be closed to the public due to the pandemic.
It is unclear
whether Porter will be performing, but last year he brought the house down when
he performed “Love Yourself” in an unforgettable gold encrusted jacket with a
matching lieutenant cap.
A few days
after his debut at last year's broadcast, he appeared on ABC’s Live
With Kelly and Ryan to spill the tea about the night.
"First of
all, I just have to say this man called me for one of the dreamiest jobs that I
always wanted in my life,” he said of Seacrest. “I got to host New Year’s Eve
in New Orleans with the master of the whole thing. It was so much fun!”