I AM...

I am whatever YOU think I am until YOU get to KNOW me. This is true for everyone else too, of course.. so don't make assumptions about anyone or pass judgment; ask questions. You might just make a new friend.


Monday, September 29, 2014



Actor Jeff Perry has joined the Human Rights Campaign's (HRC) Americans for Marriage Equality campaign.

In a 1-minute clip released Thursday, the 59-year-old Perry says he's straight but plays a gay husband on TV, a reference to his portrayal of Cyrus Beene on the ABC drama Scandal. Cyrus' now dead husband was played by out actor Dan Bucatinsky.

“I'm a straight man who plays a married gay dad on TV,” Perry says. “Cyrus and James had a pretty scandalous relationship, what with Cyrus being an evil political genius who set the love of his life up for an affair, planted incriminating photos, sabotaged his career-defining moment and almost took a hit out on James.”

“But in parts of this country what stands out to some people is not that Cyrus is an awesomely conflicted villain, but the fact that they were married at all.”

“Whether you're a gay husband or just a guy playing one on TV, you deserve the right to get married no matter what,” he adds.


Sunday, September 28, 2014


Pimping Jesus for the gain of eternal heaven is enough to bring Jesus back to denounce all religions. Christ ‘in spirit’ might be eternal life, but not in the physical. ‘Jesus the Christ’ is an allegorical spiritual story to set a road map for individual and collective life, and not meant to be attached to as a physical happening.

What happens when ‘Jesus’ returns to close the doors of all places of worship, and to admonish those who’ve made him into some ‘rock star’ rather than look at his number one message, ‘to love thyself with all the heart, body, mind, and soul, and to let arise the Christ nature within, whatever name it may go by? Man, has made the myth of Jesus, that was meant allegorically to teach humankind the higher values of life, into a reason to manipulate and control a naive humanity. Loving the Jesus in the story is wonderful, but it was never meant to reach the pinnacles of ‘love’s possibilities’. The path to ‘Christ-hood’ is a pathless path that no one can do for anyone. It’s a path of the alone into the alone. In that space, one can, by being aware and in the heart, see the ‘Christlike’ being within, and be a mirror to give others hope to seek their own path.

A Christ would never ever agree to the wars of mankind as well as those who sat worshiping him while their sons, dads, daughters, mothers and friends went to war for any reason other than as a last resort to protect themselves and loved ones lives. A ‘christ’ is a Buddha or sun to nourish all of life with love and compassion. To see a physical Jesus, Muhammed, Buddha, Savior, or any Saint is merely a delusion fomented by the ‘crafty, lower spiritual’ to stroke their egos while thinking they have elevated themselves with those perceived as lower.

No one can see a ‘god’, and no one can see a ‘god’ come down, or up in human form. Fears create life with but the shadow or illusion of love that merely tricks the mind wherever it looks while attached to the human perceptions of reality, and not from the higher consciousness of the spirit. Jesus is a representation of the spirit of life and love, not a literal idol to worship. Love yourself’s spirit, and be open to live life in ways that nourish it.


"If we allow ourselves to still our minds long enough to listen to our inner voices, and deeply consider what called us to be Gay in the first place, we are often able to clearly grasp the magnitude of the task we have undertaken. 
Time in meditation allows us to realize just how many directions we have allowed ourselves to be pulled in at the same time. There is no question that this fragmentation of our energy is from the heart. We know that it has resulted from our efforts to better do our part of arming Gay people psychologically.

For us as gay people to maintain our sanity, the peace and well-being we must allow ourselves to come into our own time, into our own book, this will be accomplished in time as long as we let spirit guide us.