Joe Gharty is a
dad from Brooklyn, New York, whose son Penel is transgender.
Speaking to the Human Rights Campaign, the teacher and entrepreneur shared
about the journey he and his wife took to come into understanding that their
child doesn’t identity with the female gender that he was assumed at birth.
Joe said that
he noticed that Penel started expressing his true gender identity from a
very early age.
The boy would
want his hair to be cut short, refuse to wear dresses, and also
prefer masculine pronouns.
One day, Joe
heard directly from Penel, ‘I’d like for you to call me a boy.’
The dad
described that it’s not difficult for him to choose to accept his son.
‘At that point
it wasn’t really a hard decision because, to me, what difference does it make
if I want to call you a boy or a girl?’ Joe said. ‘I want you to feel that I’m
confident in you and that I love you.’
However, the
dad is worried what the future might bring for his son.
‘It’s difficult
to protect our kids from those who want to hurt them,’ he said. ‘But I do want
to instill the confidence in Penel where he can stand up for himself and
express it as well.’
He added: ‘The
one thing I want Penel to always know is that I am always here and his family’s
always here. And no matter what happens, no matter how hard things get, I’m
always here and he’s always great. That’s happiness to me.’
Watch the
incredibly moving interview here:
http://www.nubianplanet.com/galaxy/blogs/entry/Black-Gay-Privilige-Even-Homosexual-Black-Men-Are-Favored-More
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