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Wednesday, September 14, 2022


Porn isn’t the only medium giving people unrealistic ideas about sex.

Innumerable pop songs, movies and stand-up acts lead us to believe that people are having non-stop penetration all night long. What is the number of minutes people typically spend fucking? While we may have a misconception that we’re supposed to last forever, science (and biology) says otherwise. Penetration isn’t the pinnacle of sex. It’s one tool of many.

Sure, no one wants to orgasm prematurely, but the length of time it takes you to go from the start of penetration to an orgasm is only a problem in certain contexts. If the whole experience from start to finish lasts under five minutes and ends with your own orgasm, that might be a letdown experience, no matter who your partner is. 

Of course, there are ways to increase how long you last, but the unrealistic expectation of lasting on and on and on — combined with the mentality that sex is over once you ejaculate — can lead lots of guys to simply feel ashamed or embarrassed when it comes to sex. Which, as you can guess, is hardly a recipe for a mind-blowingly hot experience. 

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