Most of us
have experienced that crazy, out of control feeling at the beginning of a new
romance. Our heart races, we feel a rush of adrenaline, and all we want to do
is be with that person. This is known as passionate love and it feels wonderful and exciting.
But here’s the
truth: Studies show that passionate love declines in most romantic
relationships after about 12 to 18 months. Most couples fail to maintain the
urgent longing for each other that originally led them to be together.
What do
you think happened to the days when we couldn’t wait
to rip our clothes off?
I wish we could keep that excitement going, but it's just not realistic. Real life is about the day to day, not the exceptional experience. Yes, I wish every day was an exceptional experience, but that unrealistic and quite frankly, wouldn't what makes those moments special simply become mundane? Passion is always welcome. Fireworks. A burst of flame. But, in the long haul, if you care about each other, help each other out, and hold hands on occasion... well, isn't THAT romantic?
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