Your man is everything you want in a sex partner. He's attentive,
makes you feel special and knows exactly how to get you off. But there is a
problem. It takes him forever to have an orgasm. While you are aware that some
men are long winded. You have no idea how to satisfy him in a way that brings
him pleasure and keeps you from getting bored waiting for his big moment. You
are in luck. Here are a few tips that can help.
Talk it Up
Sometimes its best to address your issues head on. Your man may
already know that he is long winded. By communicating your desire to please
him, you can learn a few of the ways that he gets off. Once you understand what
he needs, you can be a willing participant in his climax. Be sure to have this
conversation outside of the bedroom when you are both in a great mood. Should
he be only able to climax through masturbation, find ways to pleasure him to
heighten his release.
Fill Up on Foreplay
Contrary to popular belief, men do enjoy foreplay. It sets the mood
for great sex and allows you to connect with your partner on a deeper level.
When making love to a man that's long winded, its good to add foreplay to your
arsenal. Sensual massage can turn him on and bring him closer to a climax.
Kissing, touching and licking his errogenous zones can heighten sex . If your
man is aural, reading erotica can fill his ears with fantasy.
Power Up the Porn
Men are visual and sometimes they need something to look at to get
them ready for the big moment. While you may not be cool with the idea of him
watching porn to get himself going, it could be the solution when done
strategically. Find his favorite video and encourage him to watch it while you
are cleansing your body for sex. Take your time to pamper yourself while he
takes in the sights and sounds. Once you enter the room, he should be ready to
go. You may find that the act of him getting himself worked up makes his climax
happen sooner.
Using A Premium Lubricant
Using a higher quality lubricant that creates more sensation is
essential. Lubrication creates a silky glide that will heighten the feeling.
Your partner will be able to feel more of you increasing his sensitivity. Gun
Oil is a premium lubricant that doesn't dry out. It has vitamin e and aloe
to soothe and increase intimacy. Adequate lubrication will keep intercourse
from becoming uncomfortable if he's taking a longer time to reach his big
moment.
Time for the Toys
Turn your bedroom into a playground with toys designed for men. Not
only do toys provide hours of stimulation, they can help him reach orgasm
faster. A masturbator can help your top reach orgasm with its ribbed inner
tunnel that massages him from base to tip. The Mood Pleaser Frost feels
like the real thing. It has hand grips that allow you to add pleasurable
pressure. Each squeeze will be sensual. Men who bottom can rock their P spot
with a prostate massager and experience an anal orgasm. The Compact
Prostate Massager by Dr. Joel Kaplan teasers your sweet spot while the
vibration sends shock-waves through your body. Remember that you and your lover
don’t have to orgasm together during intercourse – be open-minded to try
different ways of pleasuring each other.
These are all great suggestions, thank you for sharing them, my naked brother. Then, there's always the "old school" method: using your masculine skills to work with your man and get him busy! :) :) :)
ReplyDeletesomething tells me that you are an 'old school' guy
DeleteGreat advice!
ReplyDeleteyeah one of the best from Dickz Toyz
DeleteI will tell you what works for sure: tell him to stop jerking off so often... ;)
ReplyDeleteokay I will try :)
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