There is nobody
else like you in the world and this is worth celebrating rather than searching
for faults.
You are unique.
There is no one else like you in the entire universe. In honor of your unique
self, it is good to acknowledge and embrace the special qualities that make you
the person that you are. One way to do this is to not compare yourself with
other people.
It is human
nature to want to see how we measure up in comparison to others – especially if
we think that they are better than us or have more of something that we want.
Yet the truth is that it is not a good use of time to compare ourselves with
others because there is no one like us and this makes us incomparable. It is
sometimes almost easier to look outside of ourselves and feel like we are
deficient in comparison to other people rather than taking responsibility for
our own progress in relation to the fulfillment of our life purpose. It
actually takes more courage to be self-referential and look at ourselves to see
whether we are measuring up to our standards or meeting our full potential.
Each of us has very special gifts, and we are here for very specific reasons.
We each have a life purpose to fulfill and with this come the lessons that we
must learn and the circumstances that we must go through in order to evolve as
spiritual beings. To compare our lives to other people's lives when we have no
idea of what they are here to learn or fulfill doesn't benefit anyone –
especially you.
Instead, if we
can accept ourselves, appreciate the special talents and qualities that we
alone possess, and realize that each of us is going through certain kinds of
experiences for a reason, we are less likely focus so much on what other people
have or are doing. Realizing and valuing our uniqueness enables us to bring out
the best in ourselves so we can get on with living rather than preoccupying
ourselves with meaningless comparisons. Try to not compare yourself to others,
and you will see how much you have and how special you are.
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