Being gay can be confusing and
tough. When you take your first timid steps/stride purposefully/sashay (delete
as appropriate) out of the closet, it’s easy to be blinded by the bright pink
light, and stumble around excited and confused, tripping over the etiquettes
and rituals that are so ingrained in the Gayverse. The most delicate of
balances to strike is that of your penis versus your social circle. Your
friends may well be the most important thing in your life, but left unchecked,
your burgeoning man-mound can dominate all, cutting a swathe through your
social life. How do you as a gay man negotiate that difficult sex-friendship equation?
By remembering that not every gay man wants to be intimate (sexually) with yourself. There are many men out there who are fine with friendship. Don't force it. If it was meant to be, it will happen. Naked hugs!
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