I am whatever YOU think I am until YOU get to KNOW me. This is true for everyone else too, of course.. so don't make assumptions about anyone or pass judgment; ask questions. You might just make a new friend.
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Monday, October 7, 2013
JUST E-MAIL ME: MARRIED TO WOMAN, ATTRACTED TO A MAN...
He has been married to a woman for five years and never questioned his
sexual orientation. But then he started to have problems in his marriage and
has become close with a gay man.
Now it seems like everything he knew about himself is being
challenged. But how can he know if his feelings for the other man are real or
if they're just a reaction to the problems in his marriage?
You don't just wake up one day & learn you have attraction to men! Some where in life that attraction was already there, the feelings toward a man was already there no matter much of denial you were in. The problem within the marriage to a woman only made you look deeper at that attraction & has nothing to do with the marriage itself. Just a reason to explore what you already feel inside! If your marriage fails then you are free to explore what's deep inside, but not until you shed the baggage of the marriage
You don't just wake up one day & learn you have attraction to men! Some where in life that attraction was already there, the feelings toward a man was already there no matter much of denial you were in. The problem within the marriage to a woman only made you look deeper at that attraction & has nothing to do with the marriage itself. Just a reason to explore what you already feel inside! If your marriage fails then you are free to explore what's deep inside, but not until you shed the baggage of the marriage
ReplyDeleteI think that sometimes in life you can meet someone that sparks something within you that you might not know is there :)
DeleteHaving never been married, I don't feel capable of advising this guy. But what Craig writes seems to me to be right.
ReplyDeleteneed to find you a husband, PRONTO!
DeleteI think you just learned the difference between forced love and real love.
Deleteyep :)
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