DIRTY TALK, THE CONVERSATION EVERY GAY MAN SHOULD BE HAVING

Talk to the ass, and it will talk back. Talk to the dick, and it is sure to spit. Dirty talk should be used as an aide, an enhancer of your sexual prowl. It will never make bad sex, good. If there is no sexual chemistry, than nothing will suffice until you get under a new man.

Therefore, never say anything that you aren't doing. If you aren't really beating it up, don't try to convince your partner with words. It only embarrasses you when you're claiming someone's ass, asking them how your dick feels, when they're still waiting for you to put it in.

Make this dick disappear.

A lot of men don't realize how much of a turn-on it is to hear your man moan and groan, not matter their sexual preference. It engages the other person, letting them know that you are living within the moment and lets your partner know that what they are doing is working. It allows room for boundaries to be pushed to their limits.

Don't be afraid to demand that your man "bring that ass back," ask him how your ass/dick feels, or call him expletives, as long as your partner is okay with that type of language. A perfect example of someone who has perfected the art of dirty talk during sex, is straight porn star Wesley Pipes. Granted, you may not want to talk as much as he does, because sex is supposed to be enjoyable. Not make you feel like you're under oath and being drilled by a prosecutor.

  

I thought you wanted this dick? Why you running?

When dirty talk is done correctly, it brings out the inner freak of even the most civilized human being. I know for me, I always put on my best Cirque de Soleil type of performance when having sex with someone who's verbal. Having a man with the right baritone speak in your ear, can send chills done anyone's spine.

Arch your back.

Some men love communication, as having an understanding helps them to open up and feel comfortable. So why not apply that same method to sex? It's a turn on to know that you are pleasing your partner and when you receive affirmation of that, things can get wet and wild. Make sure though, that when you speak, you do so-so your partner can understand what you are saying. Some men try to be all smooth by whispering too low, and their partner ends up not being able to make out what they are saying. Nothing ruins the mood more that hearing, "HUH?!"

Damn that shit talking.

Dirty talk doesn't always have to be vulgar, but it can also be romantic. Instead of repeating those sentiments often heard in porn videos, compliment your man. If that ass looks good sliding down your dick, let him know before tongue kissing him, deep and passionately. It is all about appealing to all of your partner's senses and the only time either one of you should be silent in the bedroom is after you've fucked one another to sleep.

Goddamn baby I can feel that shit all up in my stomach.

Don't be afraid repeat phrases or say some off the wall shit either. Sure it may be laughable after the moment of intimacy, but if you're slinging some good dick, your partner probably won't be able to hear you over their moans, anyway. If you've fantasized about saying some insane, dirty shit to your man and you've never said it, let it out!

Just make sure you don't go too far. I once was in the moment of passion with this white guy and he called me a nigger. Not nigga (which I don't like either, no matter what race uses it), but nigger. Hold up, pull out, time out, we need to reevaluate this situation now!

I want you to cum all over my face!

Some things may not be the best to say, so be mindful. If you and your partner are one of those couples who don't allow arguments to get in the way of your love making, don't being up relationship issues during sex.

For example, if you and your man had an argument over him washing your clothes and not folding them, in the middle of sex don't pull a Tyrese move in Baby Boy and ask, "You gonna do whatever I tell you? You gonna fold my clothes tomorrow, right?" Bringing up relationship issues, even little spats such as that, will only cause your partner to disconnect from intercourse and they may just stop you mid-stroke and go the fuck off.

And if your man chooses to remain quiet, still continue on with your dirty talk. Motivate yourself and the booty. If he won't talk back, get that ass wet and it will tell you everything you need to know.