“Why can’t I sustain a relationship for more than two months?”
“Aren’t there any decent guys out there?” These are common questions raised by many
single gay men describing their frustration and hopelessness with their dating
quests for true “boyfriend material.” Trapped in vicious cycles of unfulfilling
dating experiences, many gay men begin to feel powerless, disappointed, and
disillusioned. Not only do they begin to lose confidence, but they can even
start to succumb to the dangerous stereotypical myth that long-term gay
relationships are not possible. Since our scoeity does little to train us on
how to date healthily [especially for we gay men], what is a sure-fire way to
short-circuit this belief and create opportunities for a single gay man to get
what he wants the most?
I almost never equate Gay life trials with Str8 ones. But in this case I will. I was reading somewhere that the average length of a str8 marriage is 4 years now a days.
ReplyDeleteDating and relationships are hard no matter who you fuck.
The best thing is not to put so much pressure on yourself. Just enjoy the fun and closeness you have with that new guy and if it lasts great! And if id does not...well...at least you had a good time.
well said, I ALWAYS tell gay men if you aren't having fun then you are doing something wrong
Deleteyou has found one, I think. So you know the answer on your own ;-)
ReplyDeletewell it isn't about me this time
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