THE MARRYING "UN~KIND"

It always amazes
me how the PULSE of
the GAY community is on
the streets N’ sidewalk and NOT in the lives of
the everyday GAY man. Never had
this statement been more true than when the topic of GAY MARRIAGE or CIVIL
UNIONS come about. We hear the church and politicians speak
about it, even community leaders have their say. For me I find it sad that no
matter WHO or WHAT we are, we seem
to have this need to belong AND be like the rest
of the when we are NOT!

THERE ARE NO TWO
PERSONS THAT ARE ALIKE! Though NOT all GAY men are the same,
how is that MOST of us are NOT fit to be in a
relationship much less a commitment such as marriage? I find it a bit comical
listening to HETEROS foam @ the mouth
about the sanctity of marriage AND how we are about
to destroy that; I expect that from them. However when GAY men take on this
same idea AND run with it, it
makes me fume! HOW
CAN THEY DO THIS TO THEMSELVES? DON’T THEY KNOW BETTER?

ISN’T IT CRAZY TO
BE GAY & NOT BE OKAY WITH WHO YOU ARE? How could they NOT see that their
denial of WHO they are is @ the
very least a mild form of HOMOPHOBIA?
FOR ME MARRIAGE SYMBOLIZES THE HIGHTST FORM OF ROMANTIC LOVE; FOR IT TO BE
PERMITTED TO ONLY THOSE THAT HAVE UNMATCHED GENITALS IS CRAZY! But then again,
so many GAY
men are not marriage material
because they aren’t even human material; @ least in the ways in which it
counts.

MOST GAY MEN NEED
TO ASK HIMSELF WHY HE FEELS THE WAY HE DOES ABOUT HIS SEXUALITY? WHY IS THAT HE
CAN’T SEEM TO FIND SOME PEACE WITHIN HIMSELF? WHEN THE ANSWERS COME I HOPE IT
IS NOT TOO LATE. OUR SEXUALITY WAS HERE BEFORE WE WERE, SO IT’S NAÏVE TO THINK
THAT IT IS SOMETHING THAT CAUSES US TO HAVE NO REAL PURPOSE OR IS SUITABLE FOR
THE COMMITMENT OF MARRIAGE. I WOULD LOVE IT IF MOST GAY MEN DIDN’T SEEM TO CARE
ABOUT TAKING THAT STEP IF THEY SIMPLY HAD SOMEONE TO SHARE THEIR LIVES WITH;
BUT THAT IS NOT THE CASE! WHAT GETS ME IS HOW THE DOGMAS SHUT THE DOORS TO
KNOWLEDGE & PROGRESS & WE GIVE THEM EVERY REASON TO DO SO & I DARE
SOMEONE TO LIVE OTHERWISE!