Struggle can find no foothold
when confronted with gentleness, because conflict can only exist when fed by
two opposing forces.
Throughout
life in our communities, we must cope with blockages that impede our forward
momentum. Whether these obstacles are of a personal, professional, or societal
nature, our first instinct may be to push against the obstruction. But the
simplest way to alleviate resistance is to approach it gently, with a soft
manner and kind intentions. Struggle and strife can find no foothold when
confronted with gentleness because conflict can only exist when fed by two
opposing forces. So many areas of our lives can benefit from the application of
gentleness. The beauty of gentleness lies in its multifaceted nature. It is
part love, part compassion, part patience, part understanding, and part respect
for others. When we move through life gently as a matter of course, we
naturally attract these wonderful elements into our lives.
This does not
mean that gentle people are by nature passive or meek. Rather, their copious
inner power is manifested in their gentleness and their choice to move with the
flow of the universe instead of against it. You can make use of gentleness in
your own life by applying it in situations where you feel challenged by your
circumstances or by people in your environment. As you move forward gently, the
energy pervading your life will likely shift and, consequently, the blockages
before you will vanish. Cooperation progresses smoothly when approached gently
because all parties involved feel confident that their needs will be met. And
quarrels are easily quelled with gentleness because the dualistic concepts of
losing and winning are made moot by our willingness to exercise infinite
patience with those whose values differ from our own.
Gentleness
must be practiced, as we are inadvertently encouraged to act competitive in
certain phases of our lives. At first, your established habits may make being
truly gentle challenging. Yet after a time, if you commit to consciously
applying gentleness to all areas of your life, whether by collaborating rather
than competing or yielding graciously to the impassable roadblocks in your path
in order to seek a new road, you will find that you begin to act gently
habitually. Your patterns of thought and behavior become ever more peaceful,
and you will discover that you encounter far less impassable resistance on your
individual journey.
I try to be gentle. Even when critical. But sometimes... people can't take a hint. But in general, yes, always choose to be gentle. It's easy On you and them.
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