AS GAY MEN, OUR EXES & FRIENDS CAN DATE EACH ANOTHER...¿RIGHT?

 To build upon the idea that everyone is a possibility and connected, we can date each other’s exes in a way the straight world doesn’t or won’t. We can become partners, sexual conquests, best friends and ex-boyfriends. Our ex can date our best friend, who was someone we at one point might have been dating. 

The relationships that exist within the gay community are so complex, and run so deep that it feels like we are in an endless connect-the-dots game that feels both familiar and obscene. The list could truly go on, but none of these points should be used as an excuse for cutting each other down. 

What do you think about our ability to date each other whether it causes problems or not?