We’re all seeking that special
person who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships,
you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong.
Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out
partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living
to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn’t until you finally run up
against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems—the ones that make you
truly who you are—that we’re ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you
finally know what you’re looking for. You’re looking for the wrong person. But
not just any wrong person: it's got to be the right wrong person—someone you
lovingly gaze upon and think, “This is the problem I want to have.
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