Do we share a common life purpose?
Do you feel safe expressing my feelings and thoughts with this person?
Is he/she a refined and sensitive person?
Do they work on personal growth on a regular basis?
Are they serious about improving themselves?
What do they do with their time?
Is this person materialistic?
How does he/she treat other people?
Ask: Is this someone who enjoys giving pleasure to others or are they wrapped up in themselves
and self-absorbed?
How do they treat people whom they do not have to be nice to, such as waiters, bus boys, taxi
drivers, etc?
How do they treat their parents and siblings?
Do they gossip and speak badly about others?
Observe the relationships around you, pay attention; which ones lift and which ones lean?
Which ones encourage and which ones discourage?
Which ones are on a path of growth uphill and which ones are going downhill?
Do you bring out the best in each other?
Do you compliment and compromise with each other, or do you compete, compare and control?
What do you bring to the relationship?
Do you bring past relationships, past hurt, past mistrust, past pain?
Do you really want to be in a relationship?
Can you remain faithful?
Do you believe in soul-mates and if yes are you with yours?
What does loving someone else mean to you?
Its hard to always put what we think in words, but somehow, you have managed to encapsulate what most of us feel, even when most of us don't know how to articulate what we are feeling.
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