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Sunday, October 23, 2022

๐Ÿ˜Š SHIFTING INTO GRATITUDE ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ COMMUNITY WORTHINESS ๐Ÿณ️‍๐ŸŒˆ


The question of whether we or anyone else deserves to be apart of our community is not really in our jurisdiction.

We all know what it's like to finally feel like we’ve found our tribe, only to find ourselves feeling as if we don't fit in. Something makes us feel off, wanting to reject the gift of our community or is it because we have to think of ourselves in a new way? If these feelings of unworthiness are not consciously acknowledged, they can lead us to sabotage ourselves out of the gift being offered. Perhaps the best way to avoid rejection and sabotage is to simply shift into a state of gratitude, bypassing the question of worthiness altogether.

The question of whether we or anyone else deserves to be in our communal space is not really in our jurisdiction. These themes play themselves out in ways we can't fully comprehend--on the level of the soul, over the course of many lifetimes. What we do know is that the universe has its own way of shifting the balance over the course of time so that all things are ultimately fair. We can trust in this process and understand that when a gift comes our way, it is because we are meant to have it. Otherwise, it would not be available to us. Accepting the gift with gratitude and using it to the best of our ability is true humility.

When we receive a gift and find that feelings of unworthiness crop up, we can simply acknowledge the feelings and then remind ourselves that they are beside the point. We might say to ourselves, "I am meant to be here." As we allow ourselves to accept the gift, we might feel tenderness in our hearts that naturally shifts into a deep feeling of gratitude. As we sit for a moment, consciously holding the gift in our hands or in our hearts, we say "yes" to the universe's many blessings, and we also say "thank you."


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