On hook up
apps, we may embellish a little. At the beach, we may subtly adjust it to look
better. Why is it so hard (pun intended) to talk honestly and openly about
penis size?
A lot of
avoidance on this issue likely comes down to the fact that our narrative about
what constitutes a good size penis can largely be summed up in just 3 words –
bigger is better. This baseline expectation is so entrenched in our collective
thinking and culture, that it’s pushed out any other possible ideals.
It explains
the rise in popularity of wonder-jock underwear, which much like it’s female
cousin counterpart – the push up bra, enhances your natural shape to make it
seem larger. It explains the anxiousness many men feel in gym change rooms. And
ultimately, it explains why this topic seems to be so unapproachable for the
majority of guys.
There’s potential
to have a mature, real and affirming discussion about penis size, that would be
so beneficial for so many guys. These unrealistic expectations that we place on
ourselves, and that seemed to be reinforced by society, aren’t productive.
So big is yours?
Bigger isn't always better. Depends on what you wanna do with it! LOL I can find something to do with just about any of them. Large or not.
ReplyDeleteI agree. The fantasy sometimes don't live up to the reality. I wish we can just embrace all sizes just like we have started to embrace each other and our particular genders.yes we still have a lot to go.. But we are moving in such a wonderful direction.
ReplyDeleteSize Doesn't Matter. It s about knowing how to use what you've got. There has to be some passion there or otherwise it's no more than just a fuck... pardon my language.
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