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Friday, July 29, 2016

THE ONES WHO LOVE YOU...

The ones who love you will never leave you. 

Even if there are hundred reasons to give up, they will find one reason to hold on. 

~ Unknown

HEAR WHAT THIS GAY BLACK MAN WITH HIV HAD TO SAY TO THE DEMOCRATIC CONVENTION

‘Do you know who is most at risk? Young gay black men. Men like me. In fact – one in two gay black men will be diagnosed with HIV in their lifetime if current rates continue’

For the first time in 12 years, the Democratic National Convention (DNC) in Philadelphia played host to a speaker who is openly living with HIV.

Daniel D. Driffin is the co-founder of Thrive SS, a non-profit organization that, according to its Facebook page, ‘offers support, advocacy through community mobilization and improved health equity to those living and THRIVING with HIV.’

He is also a co-founder of Undetectables Atlanta, another HIV group for gay/bisexual men, and the co-chair of the Task Force to End AIDS in Fulton County, Georgia.


He addressed the conference yesterday afternoon. Below is a transcript of his speech, and you can also watch it below.


‘Good afternoon. I live in Atlanta, Georgia and I serve as the co-founder of Thrive SS.

‘Together with more than one million Americans, I am living with HIV. When the HIV/AIDS epidemic first emerged in the 1980’s, I was not born yet. It was a mysterious virus, then a deadly one too. It seemed to be picking off gay men one by one, especially Black and Latino.

‘The community spoke out so that policymakers would take notice. And while summoning their voices, Hillary Clinton listened. She advocated for the increased funding for prevention and research as first lady, and then worked to increase the funding in the senate. She defended the Ryan White Care Act and expanded research in testing and education.

‘As secretary of state, Hillary helped to ensure that 6.7 million people around the world got access to antiretroviral therapy. And she cracked down on the stigma around the virus and helped lift the travel ban with the help of the congressional black caucus, which presented people with HIV/AIDS from entering the country.

‘The number of new HIV/AIDS diagnoses is on the decline in the US by nearly 20% over the last decade for certain populations.
‘We know how to prevent the virus now. We know how to diagnose the virus now. We know how to treat it and we know how to suppress it. We have learned all about it within my lifetime. But still, there are many living with HIV.

‘And do you know who is most at risk? Young gay black men. Men like me. In fact —one in two gay black men will be diagnosed with HIV in their lifetime if current rates continue. If we have enough data, I’m sure black transgender women are more at risk too.
‘What can we do to fight HIV/AIDS today? We invest in research and education; expand treatment and prevention. And we elect Hillary Clinton.

‘With Hillary Clinton as our president, I believe that we can meet our goals of an AIDS free generation. As an organizer, as a black man, as a gay man, and as a man living with HIV, I ask you to go get tested—then go and vote. Thank you.’

Earlier this year, the Centre for Disease Control issued findings of an analysis concluding that if current rates persist, half of all black man who have sex with men will test HIV positive in their lifetime, and one quarter of Latino gay men.

Poz magazine says that the selection of Driffin as a speaker came after HIV activists met with Hillary Clinton and Bernie Sanders in May to discuss issues around HIV prevention and treatment.

Activists had previously criticized Clinton for her praise of former First Lady, Nancy Reagan at the time of her death. Clinton had applauded Reagan for her ‘low-key advocacy’ and for helping to start a conversation around AIDS. Clinton later apologized.

‘We have to implement better policies around testing and access to care’

In a statement to GSN, Driffin said, ‘My life is changed!’ when asked how the experience of speaking at the conference had been.
He said he had been nervous for ‘1.5 seconds when the TelePrompTer didn’t move,’ at the beginning of his speech, ‘but I paused and it caught up.

‘I had the chance to speak from my heart about the lives of LGBTQQI people. We have everything we need to end HIV infections in the United States with increased access to ARVs for people living with HIV and PrEP for people at risk for HIV.

‘It is not OK to live in this country and black gay men face a 50% chance of contracting HIV in their lifetime. We have to implement better policies around testing and access to care for those most affected.’

SOURCE: GAY STAR NEWS



Thursday, July 28, 2016

THE CASE AGAINST US...

Naysayers are a strong lot....
They tell us we don't work.
"They" say it is a waste of time.
They feel like they are begging.

It never goes anywhere...
Many of us do not seem interested.
I get it....it is hard being us.
What if I told you that your life isn't a waste of time.

Do you know that the essence of homosexual revolutionary activity is to destroy that which destroys us?
To rebuild within our community for us by us?
The truth is that it’s just easier for mainstream society to accept
The notion that everyone is straight. 

The fact that homosexual don't fit conventional expectations
And we are seen as making a conscious choice not to be on anyone’s team.
I say live your own style, 
Defy common labels, 
That try to confine you, me and us.

JANE FONDA, EVA LONGORIA, ALAN CUMMING APPEAR IN HILLARY CLINTO MUSIC VIDEO

The Democrats are stepping up the fight ahead of the Presidential election… by releasing a music video.

Hillary Clinton became the party’s official Presidential nominee last night, launching the final stretch of the Presidential election – as both Trump and Clinton have now been confirmed as candidates.

To celebrate the moment, the Democratic National Convention Committee has surprisingly released a music video.


The party released an a cappella cover of Rachel Platten’s Fight Song, and it’s packed with heavyweight Hollywood and Broadway stars.

It features a number of musical and theatrical legends (Kristin Chenoweth, Idina Menzel, Ellen Greene and Alan Cumming) as well as a number of big acting names (Eva Longoria, Modern Family’s Jesse Tyler Ferguson).

A release explained: “Tonight, the Democratic National Convention Committee released a new video, ‘Fight Song’, which aired for the first time at the Democratic National Convention.

“‘Fight Song’, produced by Elizabeth Banks, Bruce Cohen and Mike Thompkins, features actors, musicians and supporters singing their support for Hillary Clinton to Rachel Platten’s Fight Song. The a cappella video is inspired by the Pitch Perfect films, which are produced by Banks.

“Fight Song has been energising Clinton supporters at events around the country throughout the campaign, and reinforces Clinton’s proven record of fighting for all Americans and her commitment to tackling the big challenges we face as a country as president.


The participants include Aisha Tyler, Alan Cumming, America Ferrera, Ben Platt, Billy Porter, Chrissie Fit, Connie Britton, Elizabeth Banks, Ellen Greene, Esther Dean, Eva Longoria, Garrett Clayton, Hana Mae Lee, Ian Somerholder, Idina Menzel, Jaime King, Jane Fonda, Jesse Tyler Ferguson, John Michael Higgens, Josh Lucas, Julie Bowen, Kathy Najimy, Kelly Jackle, Kristin Chenoweth, Mandy Moore, Mary McCormack, Mary-Louise Parker, Mike Thompkins, Nikki Read, Rachel Platten, Renee Fleming, Rob Reiner, Shelley Regner, Sia, TR Knight.

SOURCE: PINK NEWS

Tuesday, July 26, 2016

JUS' E-MAIL ME: SHOULD I ASK MY FORMER TEACHER OUT?

I graduated high school this year and I have kept a close relationship with my teacher. He is 15 years older than me and single. Since I was in grade 8, we would stay after school and talk for a couple of hours. He is always joking with me and giving me advice. He does not act this way with any other student. He had told me before that I was very attractive. My fellow classmates used to always say we looked cute because he does not look his age.

Sometimes we would stay after school to watch plays and he would talk to me instead of his other teacher friends. After school, if he knew I had to stay for some other reason, he would keep the door open in his office for me to walk in and talk. Sometimes he would personally ask to see me after school, so we could catch up. Do you think he has something for me? And should I make a move now that I am get older? I have never felt this towards any other boy, until now.

Have you ever had to deal with this? 


What are your thought?