“Nothing ventured, nothing
gained.” Many people adhere to this
mantra on a daily basis. They are
willing to take risks and try different things.
Others choose to remain in their secure environments; never really
looking beyond their safe situations and their false sense of stability.
Risk and taking a chance on something
that is unknown is a hard concept for many to fathom. In many cases a person’s individuality has
been compromised to the point where they are afraid to look beyond their
current situation and see what may be possible, given a little courage and
tenacity to step forward out of their comfort zones. They have handed over their inherent right to
choose for themselves to someone else who may not have their best interests at
heart.
In these uncertain economic times,
many people are finding out that their employers are not as benevolent as they
seemed to be when times were better.
Many are discovering that under more dire circumstances many employers
abandon their commitment to their employees and don’t put much credence in
longevity or the employee’s best interests when the bottom line is at
stake. Employees are becoming mere
commodities with a value by which to determine how much can be saved if a
particular employee leaves their position.
Such economic realities are forcing
individuals to look beyond their current situations for other options and
possibilities. They are being forced to
take a risk and take chances on things that they may not otherwise have ever
thought of doing.
When one is in the closet, an
individual is much less likely to venture forward to gain a higher level of
personal greatness or look at other options and possibilities because, unlike
when one’s personal economic well being is at stake, there is no real external
pressure to come out. As is the case
with a job, being in the closet can foster a false sense of security. It is a sheltered, contained environment that
does not lend itself to personal growth and exploration of what it means to be
true to oneself.
Every closeted individual has a
choice to either to live and function in their facades of false security or
take a risk and take a chance on themselves, and come out and be who they are
supposed to be. Which choice are you
going to make?
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ReplyDeleteI think that I've just about made all my choices in life. Some I regret having made, but only a few. As one looks back on one's life, one realises just how many choices have been the correct ones, even when it may not have been clear at the time. Hugs, Patrick. Have you visited my new blog yet??!!??
ReplyDeleteI find that regrets are normal and I process and release them.
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