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Tuesday, July 15, 2014
JUS' E-MAIL ME: HE WAS UNFAITHFUL, NOW WHAT?
I caught my partner of five years having an affair after peeking at
his text messages. I am devastated.
He is apologetic but I don’t know if I can ever trust or forgive
him. Am I crazy for still wanting him? Is there any hope for our relationship?
It is just part of what it is to be "gay"! Accept it and get on with your life. It happens in most gay relationships. Discuss an "open relationship" together.
That's an absurd response. There are plenty of long term monogamous "gay" relationships out there, just like hetero relationships. It may be the common occurrence in your circle of friends, not in mine. You and your partner need to have one serious conversation to see what was/were the cause(s) for the straying. If it's in his behavioral pattern, move on and find that man who will have eyes only for you.
If His love is worth it: Stay, If the pain goes even deeper: Go...
ReplyDeletesimple advice, but true nonetheless
DeleteIt is just part of what it is to be "gay"! Accept it and get on with your life. It happens in most gay relationships. Discuss an "open relationship" together.
ReplyDeletedon't think he can handle an open relationship
DeleteThat's an absurd response. There are plenty of long term monogamous "gay" relationships out there, just like hetero relationships. It may be the common occurrence in your circle of friends, not in mine. You and your partner need to have one serious conversation to see what was/were the cause(s) for the straying. If it's in his behavioral pattern, move on and find that man who will have eyes only for you.
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