You Are Not Comfortable
Believe it or not, location plays a
great deal in sexual comfort. A man that doesn't feel safe in a location will
have challenges enjoying anal sex. This is a common reason some men do not like
to engage in penetrative activity in public areas. Bad neighborhoods can also
create anxious behavior leading to sexual challenges. If you know your area is
bad, its best to travel to him or get a motel. Take a few minutes to spruce up
your place before he comes over. Any room that he will be in must be cleaned.
Cleanliness is sexy.
You Didn't Engage in Foreplay
While everyone doesn't want to lick
it before they stick it, you can gain some great insights from the concept.
Anal sex is better when there is foreplay. Foreplay allows the bottom to relax
and become prepared for entry. Great foreplay can make him crave anal sex. Be
sure to dedicate time to stimulate all of his pleasure zones. Leave no area
untouched. He will be in a receptive mood.
You Don't Really Want it
If you really don’t want to get down,
it will hurt. You have to be completely relaxed to enjoy anal sex. Moreover,
you have to trust your partner enough to believe that he will work at your
place. I have always believed that the bottom is in control. Tops needs to slow
down and realize its not a vagina. The
muscle outside the rectum tightens when stimulated, and it will tighten even
more when you’re tense or scared. Forcing entry when this muscle is too tight
to allow entry can contribute to the hurt.
You Are Not Lubricated Enough
Relaxing will help ease the initial
sensation of anal sex, but no amount of relaxation will ease the discomfort if
the sphincter muscle isn’t lubricated enough. Spread Gun Oil Sex lube on your
partner’s penis and apply more to your anal region to make anal sex more
pleasurable. Should you have to reapply often, use a Lube Shooter to get
lubricant deep in your canal. You will stay moist during the act. An anal
relaxer can help make anal a very easy affair. Pjur Analyse Me softens the
muscles allowing a very smooth glide.
It's all a matter of relaxing and wanting it. :-)
ReplyDeleteSURE IS!
Deletenice & easy does it- dont fk me like you got a train to catch!! (oops, did I say that!!)
ReplyDeleteYES u did :)
Delete...Yeah... I want him to go down until I tell him to come up for air. And another thing, for some reason, nobody ever talks about making sure you're nice and clean inside before anything. As a man who believes in thoroughly washing his ass everyday, I advocate for a post about getting clean from the inside out, pre-sex!
ReplyDelete-_Cogito
Yeah you are right about that article being needed.
Deletewhat should I buy sex-wise, name of Lubricant, name of Plug, what kind of pump?
ReplyDeletewill do some research and do a blog entry on that
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