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Wednesday, June 18, 2014

DOUCHING & ANAL SEX...

It’s the question that dare not speak its name. You’re sitting at home; you get a text from that guy you’re casually seeing. “Come over,” it says. He didn’t even include a winky emoticon this time, you think to yourself, while throwing on a sweater and fixing your hair. Then it hits you: how much should you prepare for this late-night rendezvous? You know… internally?

Preparing to bottom is an important part of gay sex, but it’s also a topic that no one really wants to discuss, for obvious reasons. Turns out, when you speak with folks who know their way around a man hole, there are pros and cons to most methods of self-cleaning.

All my friends I talked to about their downtown hygiene regimen said that they generally just shower before sex, if they do anything at all. “I’m always saying a little prayer,” confessed one friend. Is that really all that’s necessary? Lord knows, no one wants an incident in the bedroom, but opinions on how exactly to prevent such a sexual slip-up vary from person to person and it’s only the unusual top who wants to discuss the topic before taking the plunge.


So tell me, how many of you actually do douche before engaging in sex?

26 comments:

  1. I Always take a shower before sex. And i'm only top, not enjoying so much anal sex.

    take a look here:

    http://menforxersex.blogspot.it/2014/06/simmer-ete.html

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    1. I don't think, but it is not important

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    2. I can be a good top, if i'm involved, but never bottom.

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  2. I used always shower before sex and try to make sure that I washed my arse-hole as best I could. I only ever had one bad reaction.

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  3. I douche & shower before getting the dick.

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  4. As a top I have stock in Fleet & even will show you how you clean yourself if you don't know. Nothing is a bigger turn off then a shitty ordeal. I prefer to let you know well in advance because it's not just about douching. What you eat during the day can also make a big difference. Like don't eat Beans & rice or chillie that day cause douching might not get it all. I like a pro bttm who knows what to do & what not,

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  5. i douche 2hr before i have sex

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    1. does this mean you don't have spontaneous sex?

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  6. I've never douched and I've never had that issue.

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  7. I always do both....whether it actually happens or not, its better safe than sorry ;-)

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    1. make lots of sense to me as I follow what you do

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    2. I would do my best not to lead you down the wrong path

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  8. if i know in advance i like to shower and douche...cleaning up is part of the process...i think it's fair to both of us...

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  9. I shower and douche before sex

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