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Tuesday, October 29, 2013

¿NOT ENOUGH, JUST RIGHT?


So for the past few months I've been wondering about my sex life with Noel. Our relationship is fine, we still love each other, but I can’t help but wonder if something is wrong when I could do anything sexual with him on a daily but that isn't the case for him.

He enjoys our time together (LOVE to watch him get to the place btw) yet I still wonder why he holds out from trying to get to that place as often as we can. I ask him if he thinks I love sex TOO much he says no and that our sex life is great, yet still the lack of sexual intimacy on a daily lingers in my mind. Do you think this is a case of me not getting enough of him or are things just right?  

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  1. The eternal question that we all face at some point and time in our relationship. We all have to find our own answers, as no two couples are identical. Communication is key! Much love and naked hugs!

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    1. I agree communication is key. Just sit down and talk to him

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    2. we have and things are fine just still wonder about it from time to time

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  2. probably you don't need your sex moments in the same moments ...
    it's the only think I could say ...

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  3. "Just Right" often requires a dialogue, which most couples can't have without someone feeling attacked, resulting in many guys giving themselves "permission to play," which a recipe for disaster. Those of us who hold our vows sacred won't bestow that option upon ourselves and wind up masturbating a lot im private while we wait patiently? for a miraculous cure for what ails our partners.

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    1. we dialogue and he is fine, just that I wonder if I am sex addict :) but nah I can hold out for him my penis won't go anywhere else and that's just how I LOVE it

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    2. probably he loves sex less than you ...

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    3. could be or I could be spoil, we had sex a lot before he got a job so I got used to the every night let's get down sessions

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  4. Patience is a virtue and time will take care of your worries.

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    1. proven to be true for other areas of my life so I will take that advice

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  5. At times its better to just enjoy each other's company. And there is better opportunities for that when you're not humping like rabbits lol. Plus not having sex on the daily makes the sex greater because of the build up. Holding out can give you something to look forward to rather then to EXPECT it.

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