I’ve been told many times that the process of coming out is
cathartic. Yet since coming to terms with my sexuality, I found it arduous and
unnecessary. At least that’s what I kept telling myself. So today, I’m putting
it in writing and not looking back.
I’m gay.
I’m also an athlete. For years, I struggled to unite these two
identities in my own mind. Not until after my professional athletic career came
to an end did I allow myself to understand my sexuality. Now, three years
later, I’m finally ready to share that with people.
If not for the strength of athletes like Jason Collins, Michael
Sam, and Brian Sims, I would likely still be struggling with my own cognitive
dissonance. Each of their stories reinforced the truth that there is nothing
wrong with being a competitive athlete and gay. Just as their stories helped me
come to understand and accept myself, I’ve gotten to a point in my life where I
hope to help someone else to understand his or her identity as a gay athlete.“
– Brad Thorson, former college and NFL footballer who
briefly played with the Arizona Cardinals, coming out of the closet via a note
he posted on his blog July 4, appropriately
he's brave for sure. In Italy no footballer playes have come out yet.
ReplyDeleteenjoy my last post:
http://menforxersex.blogspot.it/2014/07/dean-monroe-parby-maurice-pegasi.html
they will I am sure of it
DeleteGreat to see these men admitting their sexuality. It must give younger player a great boost! Hugs across the seas, Patrick
ReplyDeleteThanks for your visits and comments.
LOVE this kinda stuff
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