Some may take
their positive experiences and hold on to them, while others may remember bad
experiences and try to avoid making those same mistakes.
On the other hand, some people
may take it to the extreme. For instance, if a person never received love and
affection while young it may be something they crave and will do anything to
get – which may be the start of a toxic relationship.
Think you’ve
had some bad romances in your life? Check out these 7 signs of a toxic romantic
relationship:
1. Control
This sign
might not be as obvious to some because it is often disguised as “caring.” In
reality, it is manipulation. Some examples include one person making all the
decisions and telling their partner what to do, what to wear, or who to spend
time with.
They are
usually unreasonably jealous and may try to isolate their partner from his or
her friends and family.
2. Hostility
Now, this one
may be a little bit more subtle at first. You may dismiss it, initially, but
pay attention to the signs. Examples of this include picking fights or
antagonizing their partner. This may lead to the victim
changing their behavior in order to avoid upsetting the offender.
3. Dishonesty
Lying,
stealing, or keeping information from the other comes along with a lot of other
factors. Some examples of this could be drug abuse, infidelity, or illegal
activity.
4. Disrespect
This can come
in the form of one partner criticizing the opinions and interests of the
other. Another example of this is destroying something that belongs to
the victim.
5. Dependence
An example of
this includes a person expressing that they “cannot live without” their
partner. They may even threaten to do something drastic to their partner or
themselves if the relationship ends.
6.
Intimidation
Intimidation
in a relationship is when a person tries to control aspects of their partner’s
life by making the other partner fearful or timid.
One partner
may attempt to keep his or her partner from friends and family or threaten
violence or even a break-up.
7.
Physical/Sexual Violence
Physical abuse
in a relationship is when one uses force to get his or her way (such as
hitting, slapping, grabbing, or shoving). They may also pressure or force their
partner into sexual activity against their will or without consent.
If you feel
you are in a toxic romantic relationship, it’s important to know that you can
end things on your terms with the help of others if needed.
SOURCE: BLACK DOCTOR
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