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Friday, August 7, 2020
THE MYSTERY OF LOVE...
Love is still a bit of a mystery, but we keep getting closer to figuring out its oddball intricacies. Sure, it’s based on an evolutionary need to pair up and spread our genes, and our hormones are responsible for lots of the craziness, but that doesn’t explain all the volatility and heartbreak that goes along with finding love.
I think drama is for the young. After a certain age... it becomes about companionship. What can I put up with. What can I live without. What compliments my life. What do I bring to the table. That sort of negotiation... we settle because we know what's achievable, what's out there. We've experienced enough. We realize that no one else is going to complete our picture... we have to do that for ourselves. And so love becomes a matter of practicality. Unless you've learned nothing from life... then you keep hitting your forehead against the glass.
I think drama is for the young. After a certain age... it becomes about companionship. What can I put up with. What can I live without. What compliments my life. What do I bring to the table. That sort of negotiation... we settle because we know what's achievable, what's out there. We've experienced enough. We realize that no one else is going to complete our picture... we have to do that for ourselves. And so love becomes a matter of practicality. Unless you've learned nothing from life... then you keep hitting your forehead against the glass.
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