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Tuesday, October 6, 2015

GAY PORN: HELPFUL ¿OR? HARMFUL

Whether or not you watch porn yourself, chances are you have an opinion about it. Gay porn has its fair share of fans, as well as critics. But have you ever wondered whether gay porn is actually helpful or harmful to you?
This isn’t a trick question. There’s no right or wrong answer. In fact, there isn’t a universal, one-size-fits-all answer. We’ll all answer this question differently because we all experience gay porn differently.
So tell me, do you think gay porn is
Helpful


¿OR?


Harmful


5 comments:

  1. It can be both ways, as you stated in your text. If one spends too much time drooling over the antics of others rather than wooing his man, then yes! Definitely harmful AND hurtful. Looking at porn together? If it works for you both, fine! It depends on the situation and the men involved. Love and naked hugs!

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  2. I agree with "Bare With Pride." It also depends on one's self esteem as well. Know your own limits as to whether you are looking /using it as a tool or crutch in your life/relationships.

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  3. I think it's a double edged sword. It's can be both harmful and helpful.

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  4. The two edges can be harmful, gay porn can make u miserable, likewise makes u happy.

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    1. So agree with the view of duality in this erotic human expression. Addictions to anything in this life come from the ease of access and the social taboo and/or acceptance of an activity. Years ago the taboo of sexuality in AMERICA was so ridged and strict that there was a heightened sense of excitement to engage in being a part of society that was relatively unacceptable & misunderstood. The liberty one can take with the new found freedom and social acceptance of alternative lifestyles can also backfire into keeping the participant in a state of limbo and away from the experience of interpersonal relationships. Temporary numbing suppression of sexual desires also diminishes the real life interactions & also has a bittersweet sense of satisfaction mingled with selfish guilt. Enjoying the physical body is a very natural pleasure and can be celebrated in many expressive ways. Be alert to your emotional state of mind before , during and after experiences with PORN, then decide for yourself what is best. Celebrating the magnificence of human diversity and beauty !

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