One of the advantages of being gay men is that we have the ability
to create virtually any type of relationship we want. Heterosexual
relationships are often limited by nature when it comes to genitalia. Either
you are the one being penetrated or you are the one doing the penetration. But
in homosexual relationships we men have the "tools" to be completely
versatile, leading to endless amounts of pleasure and a wide variety of dating
potentials.
Unfortunately, majority of gay men limit their potential by
identifying as either top or bottom, and henceforth only pursuing those who are
a different sexual preference than themselves. And the list of factors we take
into consideration goes on and on. The more qualities we add to the list, the
more the dating pool begins to shrink.
Despite us being able to connect much easier through dating apps
and social media, in today's society it can be extremely challenging to find a
quality partner. Yes it is very important to have personal requirements for
selecting your ideal lover, but we must also take into consideration that it is
our list that have the potential to limit our love lives.
When it comes to bottom/bottom relationships, I honestly do believe
that they can work. A real relationship should never be defined by what we do
sexually as a relationship is more than just what we do in the bedroom,
bathroom, kitchen, balcony, rooftop…you get the picture. Believe it or not,
bottom/bottom relations are easier that top/top relations since both parties
are receptive to penetration. In top/top pairings, there is more resistance and
that limits the flexibility of the pairing.
If you have find a partner, your soul-mate who is perfect for you
in every way, except for the fact that he is a bottom just like you, could you
walk away from him without regrets in an attempt to find a top who may fuck
you, but never fuck you as good mentally as the bottom you left in the past?
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