Knock on any door and inside will be found those responsible for the stolen lives of gay men. Instead of being protective of the a queer child’s destiny, those caretakers are following the same protocol that was done to them as children. They are training up the child so that it will forever reflect the civility of the present culture.
Parents who maintain their socially-given identity cannot be the true guardians of queer children. The true destiny of children is to be the possessors of their own pristine awareness and to respond to life’s challenges from that state. The guardian’s role is to guard by first protecting the child from those who feel it is their duty to mold (clone) the child into the image liken onto themselves; to provide the space where completeness can come to fruition.
From childhood to adulthood the chances of a queer child reaching its flowering (completeness) is extremely rare. The fragrance from such a being would be considered as un-acceptable. The adulthood of such a being would see itself as a stranger in a foreign land. Societies believe they function at their finest with clones and drones and not with those showing independence.
The moment we accepted the role as charlatan, we were instantly cast out of the garden of choice-less (effortless) living, to our present state where false beliefs (given by others) are accepted as the norm. From that tainted pool are spewn forth the mis-guided responses that are perceived as our daily relationships.
Life expressing itself through our being is the meaning of life.
That meaning, that life is my wish for you & me.