A few weeks
ago, he showed me a guy who wanted to have a three-way. I really wasn’t into
it. An hour later, I noticed he was still on Grindr after he left my house, but
his location wasn’t very far away and his profile picture was next to the guy
he was talking about earlier. The next day he admitted that he hooked up with
him. I was extremely upset and we came to an understanding that we would only
play with others together.
Like I said,
we’re not in a real relationship, even though we act like a couple. He doesn’t
refer me as his boyfriend, but does say we are dating and when I asked him if
he was hooking up with anybody else, he said no. Yet he’s always on Grindr!
Fast forward
again. He wanted to have another three-way and showed me some guy. After he
left my house, I saw he was next to the guy on Grindr. I texted him immediately
and asked what he was doing. He said it was just a coincidence and that nobody
was next to him.
Am I wrong?
How do I move past this? Or do I accept that we’re not in a relationship and
I’m wanting too much when he’s clearly not looking for commitment? My heart and
brain don’t see the match.
Have you ever
had to deal with this?
What are your
thoughts?
What advice
would you give this person?
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