Sports were
never my thing. In high school gym class, I would always be the last person to
be picked for a team. No one wanted me. I was too fat. Too slow. And I was
uncomfortable in my body. The jocks called me “queer” for being effeminate.
Yet, the Winter
Olympic Games have always captivated me.
Today, I’m
bummed that many LGBTQ+ Asian athletes are either not out as LGBTQ+ or have
withdrawn due to China's policies regarding LGBTQ+ public figures. But
some show us how we can be all of who we are — that we can live our lives
authentically and achieve our fullest potential in whatever we do. They also
remind me that the world is still a dangerous place to be LGBTQ+.
I’ll be
cheering on Alysa Liu, who will be competing in Figure Skating for Team
USA in Beijing. Alysa uses she/they pronouns and hangs a lesbian flag in their
room. There are other moving stories of LGBTQ+ API athletes.
Julie Wu
Chu is a Chinese lesbian who competed on Team USA in 2018, competing for
gold in ice hockey. Esera Tavai Tuaolo (pictured) is a gay Pacific
Islander who played defensive tackle for the NFL Green Bay Packers. Amazin
LêThị was a
Vietnamese professional bodybuilder who now promotes HIV and AIDS awareness and
equality for LGBTQ+ youth. Schuyler Bailar is a trans man on
Harvard’s Men’s Swimming and Diving team who won the national championship for
the Capital Swim Club.
I’m proud of
these role models. They break the stereotype of Asians as “mathletes” or only
able to compete on Team STEM (Science, Technology, Engineering, and Math).
These LGBTQ Asian and Pacific Islander athletes show us that we can excel in
both mind and body.
The Olympics
opens with the ceremonial Parade of Nations. But, who parades for LGBTQ+
rights in Asia and the Pacific?
We only hear
about the extreme news-making events, like Taiwan’s decision to allow same-sex
marriage or the public shaving of trans women’s heads by police in Indonesia.
There is so much more.
Many countries
in Asia and the Pacific still do not recognize same-sex marriage, lack LGBTQ+
anti-discrimination laws, and do not allow their residents to change their
legal gender. Some of the most hostile were Malaysia, Myanmar, Papua New
Guinea, Tuvalu, and Kiribati.
While other
countries espouse some protections for LGBTQ+ people. Fiji and Samoa’s laws are
more tolerant. Bangladesh, Nepal, and Pakistan recognize a third gender. That's
progress, but not enough. High school kids like how I once was, who might be
fat, femme, or Asian, deserve so much more in a changing world.
Glenn D.
Magpantay, Esq. is a long-time civil
rights attorney, professor of law and Asian American Studies, and 30-year
veteran LGBTQ rights activist and former Executive Director of NQAPIA. He is
principal at Magpantay & Associates: a nonprofit consulting and legal
services firm. Connect with him on Linked
In www.linkedin.com/in/glenn-d-magpantay-esq or follow him on Twitter
at @magpantay_glenn
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Yeah, this sucks 😏
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