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Wednesday, November 18, 2015


Is love something you need for great sex? 

Before you answer, think about all your sexual experiences, and you pull out the ones that you would call great.  Did every one of them happen with someone you loved? 

If we’re being honest I think the answer to the question has to be no.  Or at least, that not everyone needs love for great sex.  Does it help?  Does love make great sex better?  Does being in love increase the chances that the sex you’re having will be great?


  1. Sometimes, an anonymous sexual encounter, with "no-strings" attached makes for wild, passionate and downright "freaky as hell" sex. It can be an explosive experience but it isn't comparable to the sex you have with the man you love. Another good question, my naked brother! Love and hugs, man!

  2. Sex with the man one loves is very special, but may not be the most exciting sex one every has. There are times when the excitement, the gay abandon, the time, the place, the man (men) all add up to something extraordinary. Just enjoy sex! It's wonderful. Hugs, Patrick