If you are in a
relationship you must know that you cannot settle for a monotonous life. Your
partner is not only your best friend but also the person who is sharing a life
with you. That takes honesty and in some cases more effort than others.
That means
improving your sex life as well. After five years in a relationship, for
example, sex is something that constantly needs fresh ideas. Your partner may
seem totally committed to you in every other way besides sex.
How can you
improve your sex life then?
A little spark
in your love life is the answer. But of course your partner's a man and doesn't
know how to communicate that. Don't blame him, blame the human genome.
These easy
steps can help you reclaim your sex drive:
It's time for
action! Go to your local sex shop (if there isn't one close by, search for one
on the net). Time for some raunchy role-play. Buy a few extremely freaky items
from the kinky store. Think outside of your comfort level (i.e. swings, penis
rings, flavored lubricants, maybe even chaps).
Plan a surprise
romantic night. Prepare dinner by candlelight, but this time the menu should
consist of chocolates, strawberries, honey or even whipped cream. Instead of
sitting at the table in your normal gear, wear some of the new sexy clothing
you got from the sex shop.
Sit him down
and ask him not to move, this is your show! Feed him the goodies. Eat the whip
cream off his chest or any other creative spot. Work him into a frenzy and then
move the party to the floor or even the table top (Don't worry, you can clean
it later!). Take control and give him the wildest night of his life.
Try a little
role play. It's embarrassing at first, but make up a scenario (you're his
sex-crazed waiter, a kinky sex-god or another character that finds him
irresistible). Ravish him and don't hold back. Whisper softly in his ear that
you are his man and it's your job to fulfill his every fantasy. Just be
creative. You will have to read his mind and see what actions excite him the
most.
If the taste
fest goes well, you should spontaneously plan other exciting sexual events. Let
him know you want to be with him and only him. Try some private outdoor action
or interrupt his shower with a cleaning session of your own. In other words,
keep it exciting and spontaneous.
Your mission from this point on (if you choose to accept it) is to outdo
and outperform any potential trick he may find on the net. If your man wants
raunch, give it to him. Then, after the spark has been reunited, let him know
it's your turn to check into the fantasy hotel!
Great recommendations! Love and naked hugs, my blogging buddy!
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