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Wednesday, September 17, 2014


Recently I have noticed that for many of the online gay profiles we have so many boundaries and limits. When I was single, I remember people just wanting to have sex and get off, it was easy, simple and a complete experience.
Now it is like filling out an application for employment, by the time you get done reading the “Qualifications” than the countless emails of more questions, you are frustrated and don’t want it anymore. Remember when you would see someone and say “hello” as a few basic questions then it would be a yes or no.
Now you are lucky if someone views your profile and even acknowledges you exist. We have put everyone in a “Box” and labeled them don’t you think we have enough of that? What does it matter if you have a job? a car? or your own place? If you’re looking to get laid and not dating the person SERIOUSLY, what does it matter?
Also the limits, must be this height, this weight, this color, this dick size, or only a top, only a bottom, or my favorite “drug and disease free u b 2″ can you say rude statement. My ultimate though is “no Fats, Chubs, Fem, Queens, Trans and English speaking only” Can you be any more selective?
We have reached a point in our society where we are alienating our own community, and when I see want to be friends in a profile and you say “Hi” to them, they automatically judge you on looks or what they read and 90% of the time wont even acknowledge you.

My own personal opinion is we are gay, horny and want sex, when did this get so complicated? 
Are we shooting ourselves in the dick n' ass?


  1. Interesting topic & I do feel to many have too many limits, and I say by the 3rd I don't do then I am done. Some things I can understand like my personal don't do! Booty munchin is too personal, and although I enjoy it that is reserved for that special someone I will be with for the long haul. I am a top but will convert for that one man if that's what he desires to keep him happy & not wondering to others to get satisfied. I will compromised for that one & only that one when he presents himself. Gay Men can be so sexually self centered!

    1. nice to hear that you'd bottom for a special someone

  2. I just ignore profiles like those. They tend to be boring in bed .



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