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Thursday, March 21, 2013


The words SAFE SEX PARTY means a variety of things to different people; it conjures up conversations and images that many rather ignore. I had a conversation with a friend the other day and he told me he host SAFE SEX PARTIES and while my first thought was, dude are you serious? I actually came away contemplating hosting such an event myself.

Now before you take me to promiscuous police for entertaining the thought of aiding gay men in their sexual appetite, please note that I am not sold on entertaining such an event. I believe in balance and while my friend charge a fee for his party, I can’t help but wonder what kind of human being I would be if I were to profit of something that is natural to us as gay men. But when I think of all the things that are needed to fund such an event and me not being a rich man, the funds have to come from somewhere, right?

The money aspect pales in comparison to the MANY gay men contacting HIV on a daily basis and we all know that many will have sex without condoms; I just figure I can help fight this disease on that level. God knows I've talked and talked to men that I meet about safe sex so much and it hurts when they come back saying oh I got tested and I am positive. I recently blog about a friend of mine that encourages DL men to use his place for hook ups and I am uncomfortable with that. However I am VERY okay with throwing SAFE SEX PARTIES is there a difference really? But I digress and I find solace in the fact that my doing something like will help the gay men that have sex with each other. They take that risk so why can’t I risk being seen as an enabler of promiscuity?




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