In an
interview with the Today show,
the former NBA star it was a matter of protecting the 15 year-old’s mental
health. Wade said the family wanted to leave “the hate out of it.”
Zaya came out
three years ago as trans. Now that she has her own popular Instagram account,
Wade said she’s vulnerable to the effects of being a public figure on the
popular social platform.
“Well, we have
a 20-year-old, Zaire, who went through it a few years before Zaya, of jumping
on social media and all of the negativity that comes with social media and the
comments,” Wade said.
“And so we
went through it once and we saw how it affected him.”
For his
daughter Zaya, Wade said, it’s “a whole different conversation… going on in the
world and it’s way uglier.”
“Zaire’s
conversation was about sports,” explained Wade. “Zaya’s is about what a lot of
people don’t even understand and get.”
“And so we sat
down with Zaya about being on social media. Her, my wife, and I, we just talked
about, we want to make sure if she’s going to be on social media, if she’s
going to show people some of her life, it’s going to be the people that she
wants, that’s in her circle.”
Wade told her
it was important to make those choices about who she was interacting with to
protect her own mental health. Part of that was disabling the “noise” that
comments could bring.
“Everybody on
the outside, that noise on the outside, that [doesn’t] matter. What matters is
the voice that you allow in your circle,” he said.
“And so that’s
the people we wanted to follow her journey and follow her life. And so that’s
what we did and we left the hate out of it. There’s enough of that in the
world. She gets enough of it. We didn’t want it to be on her comments so she
can read it.”
Wade and wife
Gabrielle Union have been vocal in their support of Zaya’s transition since she
came out at age 12. This year, Wade
petitioned a Los Angeles court to change their daughter’s name.
As the
daughter of public figures, Zaya has already been attacked by anti-LGBTQ
extremists, even before her Instagram was a concern. In 2021, Zaya was the
subject of a far-right
rant by notorious Black Trump supporter Candace Owens.
“We know what
we are in this world,” said Wade. “Mental health is a very – this is an
important topic in this world. It’s very important for us as parents to protect
the health of our kids, both physically and mentally, so we wanted to do that.”
SOURCE: LGBTQ NATION
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