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Friday, May 27, 2016

¿WHAT ARE THE MOST COMMON WAYS YOU’VE SEEN GAY MEN RUIN THEIR RELATIONSHIPS?

Today on this blog, I am asking about the most common ways you have witnessed gay relationships fail.

We’ve all seen it, or been a victim to it & in an effort to bring more awareness to the topic, let’s find out what the most common reasons why gay relationships fail.

Having unrealistic expectations as the reason why gay relationships fail?

Having unrealistic expectations?

Clingy codependency?

Passive aggressive game playing?

Ongoing use of drugs and alcohol?

Thinking something better will come along?


Being too quick to open up the relationship?

2 comments:

  1. The most common recipe for failure in same gender loving relationships that I've observed is deceit. Whether it is lying or actually cheating on your husband/partner/boyfriend, it is one almost certain ingredient for failure. Good question, my bare brother! You and Noel have a wonderful weekend! Love and naked hugs!

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  2. Another reason is a profound reluctance to do the hard work it often takes to build, and maintain a relationship. The first little schism and somebody's talking about "I don't have to put up with this" and they're gone, already moving on to the next brotha to repeat the same failures. Fear of commitment - this coupled with that "something" better that is supposed to be over the rainbow - but never is.

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