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Monday, May 5, 2014


Every man has sexual ideas that never get the light of day. But don’t assume your partner doesn’t have a dirty side. In order to determine if your partner is open to experimenting with dirty sex, start off by testing the waters with a few questions on the more innocent end of the sexual spectrum. Try: “Have you ever tied anyone up or been tied up?” “Do you own any sex toys?” “What do you fantasize about when you masturbate?” “What is something you always wanted to try?”

These questions should get them to open up and start sharing some intimate details of their sexual personality with you. Then you can lead down the path to dirtiness and hopefully have dirty sex. If they get scared off by these questions, you have yourself a non-kinky person. Here are our suggestions to help you get them to have dirty sex.

Talk About Your Fantasies

Dole out a little at a time and see how they reacts. Hopefully, he’ll share some of his inner thoughts in return; when he does, make sure you show plenty of enthusiasm for their ideas if you want to get him to have dirty sex. An important thing to keep in mind when having this sharing session is to keep it in the realm of fantasy. Don’t share fantasies with past lovers.

Make It New For Both Of You

Approach the dirty experimentation like it’s new for both of you. Think of something you have never tried before and suggest that you try it together. This is the perfect time to try some new sexual positions. The Position Master allows you to feel each other in new ways. It has a slanted design and hand grips to ensure you hit those sweet spots that cause leg shaking orgasms. Using a Masturbation toy can give him a new sensation while you control the pleasure. The Super Sucker provides the most realistic oral sensation possible. Imagine him begging for more !

Play A Sex Game

A sex game might be just the thing to help you get started. These are usually aimed at couples that want to add some excitement to their love life and they should give you some ideas. I love using the Gay Sex Card Game. It is easy to play and allows you to open up to your partner in newer ways while trying new things.

Read Erotic Stories

Get each other in the mood by reading some stimulating erotic fiction. Erotic writing of a less-than-professional caliber can be found all over the internet, but there are also quality sexy stories available from people with actual skill. Pick out something that looks promising.


You are probably going to have to be the one to make the first move if you want to get a little nastier in the bedroom. Even if you have piqued his interest, he’s still not likely to start things off. Start talking dirty, set the mood and hopefully he’ll follow your lead.

They May Surprise You

For most people, revealing their private, filthy thoughts may be difficult, let alone actually acting on them with you. Once you get your partner comfortable talking about it, disclose some of your own secrets ideas, gather some inspiration and try new things. You may be surprised to find out that your partner is more of a freak in bed than you would have guessed.



  1. I don't like talking about "dirty sex" - I prefer to call it "Different Sex" or "Hard Sex". All sex is good as long as no body is forced to do something they do not want to do,

    1. I agree with you. If you want to call it DIRTY sex, ok, but it'd be better call it Hard sex.



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