I’ve been a relationship with
my partner for 11 years. Recently, I happened to look at the messaging on his
iPad and found that he was frequenting the massage services of a man that provides
the service nude. From the messages I saw, it seems that they REALLY enjoy each
other’s company and though he tells me that it was strictly business and
nothing happened I am not sure. I say this because the messages were in fact
pretty descriptive with photos of the masseur nude and included photos of my
partner. He actually booked 2-3 different massages. When I found these, I was
devastated. What bothered me most was I could determine based on the dates that
these occurred a few days after our anniversary, or after weekends that we had
been together and enjoyed our time together. When I confronted him on the
situation, he initially denied it, but as I showed him the screenshots I had
taken, he had to admit that he had in fact had a massage on a couple of
occasions and said he was offered ‘a happy ending’ but said no. So my question
is—am I being crazy for having my doubts?
Have you ever
had to deal with this?
What are your
thoughts?
What advice
would you give this person?
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