It’s a tale
as old as time: Boy meets boy. Boy falls in love with boy. Boy sleeps with
other boy behind boy’s back.
Is it pretty?
Hell no. Fair? Forget about it.
But the odds
that you have cheated, been cheated on, or know someone from either camp are
about as likely as Beyoncé
making money off her next album.
And if we’re
going to get real about it, monogamy isn’t a ship built for everyone, but our
culture almost demands it. The real problem isn’t non-monogamy, it’s
non-communication. We’re afraid to talk to our partners and afraid to be
truthful with ourselves, and the secrets and lies are the poison that can
eventually kill the love shared between two people.
So how do you deal with cheating on either side of the situation?
No two of us are the same. Just as you posted, monogamy isn't for everyone. I think it depends on the two men involved and their commitment to their relationship. Take care and stay bare, buddy!
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