When I was 18
years old I had a crush on this guy with whom I started having casual sex. We
were both physically very into each other. We started by having just a few
encounters but stipulating since the beginning that there with be no
commitment, although we didn't really knew what that meant. I told him I was
gay, because that was the way I always felt since I could remember. Him,
however, considered himself straight.
That did not
make sense in my head, at all. How could a guy have sex with me and not be gay?
"Does because I am having sex with you does not mean I am gay", he
would say. I couldn't understand it
My love for him
was real, but it was not for a relationship. It was a deep affection. And it
still is.
Have you ever had to deal with this?
What are your thought?
What advice would you give this person?
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