You’ll never
be able to date anyone else if you can’t date yourself first.
Our dreams
seem to be on an invisible axis, tilting to and fro until they land in a place
closest to our hearts. Sometimes we force it; other times we’re afraid it’ll
land somewhere dark so we’ll try and spin forever.
But here’s
the thing most of us fail to see. The man we dream of, the image we’ve had in
our heads of the perfect man, perfect partner, perfect friend, perfect lover
(all of it) is actually YOU.
That’s why
we’re so comfortable with our dream men: because it contains real qualities we
hold in ourselves. The dream guy is who we really are in our best moments. He’s
the man we want to be with, the person we want to spend the rest of our lives
with—so why do we find it easy to run away when we he becomes real?
My mother
used to say you’ll never be able to date anyone else if you can’t date yourself
first. Sometimes we spend too much time fantasizing about love that we forget
to love
The man of
your dreams is real and he’s more than just a guy to date and have sex with.
He’s the reflection of how we feel inside; so if you truly want to meet your
dream guy, you need to become him first.
It’s easier
than you think. We’re always going to attract someone similar to our
lifestyles, moral values and interests. Too many of us change ourselves in
order to attract the kind of man we want, but when you do this you’re not
welcoming authenticity in your life. You’re actually creating holes.
Loving
yourself is always a priority, but being yourself is something you need to
intuitively find—and the best way to do that is by looking at your “dream man.”
He’s the real you.
When we
become the man of our dreams we undoubtedly welcome opportunities for the other
man of our dreams to see us. The best parts of our personality will be
highlighted and exposed, leaving a path for the world to see us at our best
light.
It’s time to
stop trying to be something you’re not.
You want to meet the man of
your dreams? Be him first. The man you’ve always wanted to date will find you when
you’re aligned in your true selves. That’s the secret to finding your soul
mate.
You’ll never
be able to date anyone else if you can’t date yourself first.
Our dreams
seem to be on an invisible axis, tilting to and fro until they land in a place
closest to our hearts. Sometimes we force it; other times we’re afraid it’ll
land somewhere dark so we’ll try and spin forever.
No one is
truly “ready” to love—what does it mean anyway? Too many times I hear gay guys
talk about holding out for the man of their dreams: a prince in shining armor
who sweeps us off our feet.
But here’s
the thing most of us fail to see. The man we dream of, the image we’ve had in
our heads of the perfect man, perfect partner, perfect friend, perfect lover
(all of it) is actually YOU.
That’s why
we’re so comfortable with our dream men: because it contains real qualities we
hold in ourselves. The dream guy is who we really are in our best moments. He’s
the man we want to be with, the person we want to spend the rest of our lives
with—so why do we find it easy to run away when we he becomes real?
My mother
used to say you’ll never be able to date anyone else if you can’t date yourself
first. Sometimes we spend too much time fantasizing about love that we forget
to love
ourselves.
The man of
your dreams is real and he’s more than just a guy to date and have sex with.
He’s the reflection of how we feel inside; so if you truly want to meet your
dream guy, you need to become him first.
It’s easier
than you think. We’re always going to attract someone similar to our
lifestyles, moral values and interests. Too many of us change ourselves in
order to attract the kind of man we want, but when you do this you’re not
welcoming authenticity in your life. You’re actually creating holes.
Loving
yourself is always a priority, but being yourself is something you need to
intuitively find—and the best way to do that is by looking at your “dream man.”
He’s the real you.
When we
become the man of our dreams we undoubtedly welcome opportunities for the other
man of our dreams to see us. The best parts of our personality will be
highlighted and exposed, leaving a path for the world to see us at our best
light.
It’s time to
stop trying to be something you’re not.
You want to meet the man of
your dreams? Be him first. The man you’ve always wanted to date will find you when
you’re aligned in your true selves. That’s the secret to finding your soul
mate.
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