Articles have been written about
adjustments older males face in their later years and some websites offer
social interaction, but not many offer sexual opportunities. We have come to
erroneously believe that sex is not happening among older adults. WOW! We are
misinformed! Sexual activity among older adults is still a hot topic—pun
intended!
Many older guys are still very
active sexually—str8, bisexual and gay! These men are looking for playmates and
partners that are young, exciting and fantastic in the bedroom. They are
sometimes looking for playmates nearer their own age. Erectile dysfunction may
affect some oldsters, but medications available are permitting them to enjoy
renewed sex lives!
Many older males have enjoyed
long-term relationships with some ending in death. They have experienced
emotional trauma along with their suffering mates—just the same as str8
couples. Their lonely lives thereafter produce all the stages of
grief with depression and stress through an extended period of recovery that
could rebound in delayed sexual pleasure and ecstatic experiences.
Older gay males are not often as
interested in having occaional hookups but are more interested in the quality
of companionship in LTRs. Younger guys are not often sensitive to older gay
males and do not offer assistance—with or without sexual interaction. Some
older gay males become involved in community affairs and health awareness. (locations
for HIV testing, health screening, etc.) Websites also list volunteer
community service programs where older males can get involved. Younger males
can also find informal counseling from older males. This can result in
productive business decisions by younger adults.
If you are an older adult,
consider how you can improve the quality of your life while helping gays of all
ages—younger and older who have lost their focus! If you are a young adult
interested in making a difference in your community, think about the ways you
might interact with older guys in community projects. Give them a hand—no pun
intended.
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