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Monday, April 4, 2016

'TOPS' NEED TO HAVE COMPASSION FOR 'BOTTOMS'


When a ‘top’ treats a ‘bottom’ like a blowup doll among his friends how does it make you feel? Do you think too many tops out there refuse to acknowledge a bottom as anything other than a hole? 


Where’s the compassion out there? Don’t get me wrong. I know many gay LOVE to get pounded in the bedroom. But when a ‘top’ insists on treating a man that makes him a ‘top’ like nothing, what does that say about him? 

3 comments:

  1. If both tops and bottoms stop using porn as their teacher, this would not be an issue. For thanks to porn, too many tops believe that treating a bottom like nothing more than a hole instead of a human being is how they want to be treated. But at the same time, in addition to the low self-esteem from their life before coming out, porn teaches too many bottoms to further lower their self-esteem by making them believe that they have no right to demand better treatment.

    One reason I wanted to do while in the industry was to show better treatment of bottoms. But I got tired of fighting with porn companies (white and ethnic), so that was one reason that I eventually left. And now what you have are sites like Men.com, Titan Media, Raging Stallion, etc. inspiring more self-loathing bottoms than ever.

    And if you think I'm mistaken, check your hook-up site for bottoms, and see how many of their profiles talk about wanting to be "used and abused".

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    1. You are absolutely right. it does come from porn.

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  2. Wow, I never thought about it. Is valuable information. Makes a lot of seance.

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