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Sunday, April 10, 2016

THE MYTH OF SEXUAL WITHHOLDING & THE GAY MAN...

Many gay men have learned to withhold their sexual passions and desires from their partners to allow their men to experience one or more orgasms prior to their own release, this is done to be less selfish and more generous in their sexual practice.

While it is true that many men need to get over their addiction to their own sexual release and should be more generous lovers, there is also an ego trap for those who are withholding their passions from their men in order to be better performers.


Namely, these men get dopamine and pride jolts for giving their men orgasmic pleasure and for being superior lovers, thus putting the pressure to perform back on their woman to supply the needed orgasms to satisfy his ego.

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