A lot of gay men out there live
with this impeccable desire for straight guys. That makes the gay dating scene
sometimes very shallow all around hookup apps ("straight acting
only"). But seriously, is it possible to turn someone that might be
straight into a gay man?
Many gay men
try to use their powers of queer persuasion to create the ideal love fantasy.
They become preoccupied with the quest of turning the seemingly impossible into
the utterly tragic. The problem resides when you realize that you always fall
in love with men who like women.
We all wish we could wave a wand
and turn our crush into lust, but even if it were possible, would you REALLY want
it that way?
No way! There is a cultural-affinity with another man who finds men attractive and desirable as opposed to a "straight" man. I have no interest in even dating a man who prefers women. I did this once, got burned in the process and promised myself it will never happen again. Good point, my blogging buddy! Love and naked hugs!
ReplyDeleteYour best and only chance to get it on with a straight guy is if he happens to be of adventurous sort who'll try eveything once. And that's it. Once.
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