FROM BOY TO MAN

BELOW IS A SNIPPET OF A CHAT SESSION I HAD WITH FRIEND OF MINE THAT I RECONNECTED WITH. THIS CHAT SESSION REMINDED OF WHERE I CAME FROM & WHERE I AM NOT. I WOULD SAY THAT 90% OF THE 'OLDER' MEN THAT I TALKED TO BACK WOULDN'T DATE ME BECAUSE OF MY AGE & I CAN'T SAY THAT I BLAME THEM BECAUSE BEING OLDER I GET WHERE THEY WAS COMING FROM. HOWEVER, WHAT I DO DIFFERENTLY IS THAT I ANALYZE EACH MAN AS AN INDIVIDUAL & NOT AS JUST ANOTHER YOUNG GUY COMING MY WAY. SOMETHING MANY OF THEM SAID THAT THEY REGRETTED NOT DOING WHEN IT CAME TO ME. SO READ THIS & LET ME KNOW YOUR THOUGHTS, THANKS!

HIM: hey there

ME: hello hru?

HIM: doing
well and u?

ME: I b good
sir

no
complaints

HIM: I like your profile pic

ME: thanks took it @ work

HIM: you look so much more mature now

ME: lol so back then I looked?

HIM: well younger, but your looks have
gone from a boy to a man

ME: yep they sure have

HIM: if you were single.....hmmm

ME: if I were single what sir?

HIM: I would want to date you

ME: so back then I was too young?

HIM: I think so...saw you differently

you
actually always seemed mature for your age to me

I
respected how you stood up for your views

ME: still do lol

HIM: I know got that from our
conversation a few weeks ago

ME: really? ok

HIM: yup

ME: trying to remember our convo

HIM: we reconnected online and chatted
for a while very stimulating conversation

ME: nice 2 know I can still stimulate a
man

HIM: lol...you know you can

what did you think of me?

ME: thought u was nice

Cool

a good man to date

that could NOT
see pass my age

HIM: lol...did you really think that
before I said that?

ME: yeah

HIM: well I guess our timing was off

ME: no it wasn't

it was just right

can't make happen what ain't suppose 2 happen

HIM: I was use to dating older guys when
it came to serious relationships

ME: shows me that I have grown cause
back then...

HIM: it seemed that younger guys only
wanted sex or someone to take care of them

ME: true

I still want sex DAILY


that won't ever change about me

HIM: well same here, but I want more
than that some just want a person to have sex with

ME: true

HIM: what were you going to say about
back then?

ME: ?

HIM: you typed earlier back then...and
didn't complete it

ME: oh that who I was didn't transfer
well

HIM: ok how old are you now?

ME: 34

HIM: not that much younger than
me...late thirties here

ME: got there a little over a month ago

well now it seems like wow okay not that far off in age

but back then the gap seem so wide

HIM: yes

ME: yeah